Marriage when the two become one.

To Bridegroom
Will you, __________________ take this woman ______________ to be your wedded wife, to live together in the legal estate of matrimony? Will you love her, comfort her, honour and keep her in sickness and in health and forsaking all others, be faithful to her, so long as you both shall live?
Answer: I will

To Bride
Will you, _________________ take this man _________________ to be your wedded husband, to live together in the legal estate of matrimony? Will you love him, comfort him, honour and keep him in sickness and in health and forsaking all others, be faithful to him, so long as you both shall live?
Answer: I will

Marriage now a day it is like a child's play.

Anyone though of the vow seriously? Understand the meaning of the vow and stand by it?

Marriage is just a legal paperwork which i find that people tend to sign them easily in one moment and a divorce paper next.

What I think is that marriage is not about the two people only. It's about the two family joining into one. It's no longer about the two of them. You have to love his parent like yours and he have to love yours like his. Husband must not only know how to take care of his wife also need to take care of the entire family. If you are not ready for kids, do all the precaution. Even if you did and you have kids, learn to take care of them. No one is perfect, or born to be the perfect husband or father.

The minimum thing is to be responsible. A guy will never understand how it feel to have a fragile little life in the women womb. The pain that the women have to go through. The connection of the child and the mother. Their little heart beats and the playful little kicks. 

A husband should be responsible with all the action he makes. The basic requirements are to take care of the wife, family and his children. Be there for the them no matter what. A guy never ever should beat his wife. Be understanding. Spend quality time with the family. Scarifies need to be made.

Two person should always give in to each other. If the women start crying when they quarrel. Stop and hug your wife. Marriage is never easy. Whatever action you take it is no longer about the two of you, it's about the whole family.

A guy should never hit the women, if he did once there's always the second time. Everyone will be hot headed when they quarrel, always try to remember the good times. People tend to remember the bad things. Why? It's because it hurt so much that you could not forget, it leave a scar that you will never see. Silent is a powerful scream. Tongue has no bone but is the most powerful weapon. You could say whatever you want without thinking. Yet you could recklessly hurt the person you love most